DANGERS OF PRE- MARITAL-SEX: PART 3

Another danger has to do with contracting sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) e.g. Gonorrhoea, Syphillis, HIV/AIDS etc.Such diseases may lead to permanent damages or even death as in the case of HIV/AIDS.

            If a girl gets pregnant and has a child as a secondary school student for instance, the chance to marry a responsible young man in future becomes slim. Everybody will be calling her “after One” meaning she already has one child and some men are discouraged from asking for her hand in marriage. 

            Also a child that is born out of wedlock is called a bastard, and the future husband may not allow the child to come into the family. The child may grow up full of bitterness and may turn out to become a street boy living under the bridge. In extreme cases the boy may attempt to kill the mother, because he feels frustrated, and the question on his mind may be, “Why did you bring me to the world when you know you will not take care of me?” So be warned!

DANGERS OF PRE-MARITAL SEX: PART 2

Some girls after getting pregnant will opt for abortion i.e. removal of the baby in the womb(foetus) by a fake doctor or even in some recognized hospitals. Some girls who attempted abortion died in the process, while others who thought that the abortion was successful found out later in life to their chagrin that it was not successful after all. When they became married women, they found out that they could not conceive again because of the damage that was already caused to their reproductive organs (i.e. the womb) as a result of the abortion that took place several years before then, which sometimes led to complete removal of the womb. Others were subjected to frequent miscarriages. They found out that if the abortion they had was in the third month of the pregnancy, they were losing their pregnancies at that exact month even after they were married. So Be Warned!

            If a girl jumps from one boy to the other, she will find out later in life that she can not truly love her husband, because she has distributed several parts of herself to different men, this is what is called soul-ties. The marriage may end up in a divorce. It will take prayer of deliverance to be free from such bondage. Why must you destroy your beautiful future with momentary pleasures of sin? Don’t allow any boy or man have sex with you until you get married, whenever you make yourself cheap, the boys play with you and dumps you, and what is the result? Your heart breaks. A broken heart can not be mended easily. There has been cases of girls and ladies who experienced broken relationships and unfortunately they developed mental crises. If you have kept yourself pure, if you have refused to have sex with any boy before wedding, if he decides to call off the relationship, the pain of separation may be less because you never allowed him to have sex with you. Please protect your future.

DANGERS OF PRE-MARITAL SEX -PART 1

Pre-marital sex may lead to pregnancy or may not lead to pregnancy. If you become pregnant, you will have to discontinue your studies. If you have parents who are lenient, they may send you back to school after you might have delivered the baby, and you are strong enough to resume school. Some schools may not even feel comfortable to absorb you back. Also returning to the same school may not help your psyche. Fellow students will laugh at you and call you names- Eh! iyawo Thaddeus, or mama bomboi etc. so you may not be able to cope with the embarrassment. This may eventually truncate your education, whereas the boy that has put you in the family way will be gallivanting around, before you know it, he will pick on another innocent girl and fool her with similar deceptive words he used on the previous girl. Be wise! 

DANGERS OF PRE-MARITAL SEX: INTRODUCTION

Many girls had been deceived by boys. They had told them all kinds of lies such as: You are the apple of my eyes; the sugar in my tea; the butterfly in my stomach etc. When  girls hear such lies their heads become swollen and they feel they are the most important girls in the lives of such boys. It is a lie, the truth of the matter is that, the boys have said the same words or even sweeter ones to thousand and one girls i.e several other girls have been deceived the same way. The moment a girl allows a boy to see her pant and chops your pie (i.e. disvirgin or deflower her) the boy sees the girl as a useless girl and treats her like thrash. What do you do to thrash? Dirty things? They are thrown away. Exactly that’s what the boys do. Worse still, he will go and tell his friends, “O boy, you see that chik (girl) I have been there, go and try your luck.” Before long you become a football that boys play around.