Monday 13 July 2015

DANGERS OF PRE-MARITAL SEX FOR BOYS- PART TWO

Physical/Emotional/Psychological dangers
(1) There is the danger of being affected by diseases. There are sexually transmitted diseases like Gonorrhoea, Syphilis and even HIV/AIDS. The makers of condom even advertise that it is not 100% proof security. Abstinence is still the best way to prevent  or avoid infection. These STDs can lead to infertility even in males. The boy may develop low sperm count or weak sperm.
(2) The unwanted pregnancy which resulted from his sin of fornication can also abort the boy’s dream or destiny. Unprepared for parenthood can be forced on him.
(3)  Lack of concentration on the boys’ studies. There is no way you would not be thinking about your girlfriend even in the classroom. The time you are supposed to read you will be thinking of your next escapade or the one you had last.

(4)  Pre-marital sex can even lead the boy to steal so as to please the partner or to woo her.
(5) Your physical beauty or handsomeness wanes or deteriorates because of your sexual activities.
(6) Guilt: You will be consumed by guilt. Guilty feelings will not allow you to have peace of mind, and when you lack peace you will not be able to focus on your studies.
(7) Pre-marital sex will lead to loss of love and trust between you and your girl-friend. What you think you are expressing during such acts is not love but lust. After sometime you get fed up with her, you don’t trust her again and you start looking for new catches, i.e new girls to waste their future for them.
(8) Another effect is inability to keep your marriage when you eventually get married, because you have been joined to very many girls. 
So, Be careful with your Life!

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